The world of BDSM is vast and can be overwhelming to newcomers. One of the best ways to get started is by going with a tried and true sex toy, such as a ball gag. One of the most instantly recognizable sex toys, ball gags are simple device that cover a person’s mouth, leaving them unable to talk. Although these toys are fairly straightforward, there are many things that could go wrong while using a ball gag and lead to serious injuries. Today, FunLove.com will tell you how pleasurable these sex toys can be and share five tips on how to use a ball gag safely.

Why Do People Enjoy Ball Gags?

Ball gags can be enjoyed by the person wearing them and their partner. Some people enjoy changing up power dynamics during sex and a ball gag is perfect for domination. As you’ve probably guessed, the person wearing the gag can’t speak, while their partner can. Feeling power over your partner is one of the most common kinks in the bedroom.

On the flip side, some people enjoy feeling dominated by their partner. They enjoy being restrained and being controlled by a lover. The best part is that you and your partner can use ball gags to mix up the power dynamics. You can take turns being the dominant one and the dominated.

Lastly, some people love to use ball gags for sloppy sex. Being unable to fully breathe out of your mouth and swallow fully can lead to a buildup of saliva. As you’re moaning and yelping with pleasure, you may also start drooling. Every now and then, people enjoy changing things up with hot, sweaty, sloppy, and drooly sex.

Five Tips to Use a Ball Gag Safely

Okay, now that you have a better understanding of how much fun a ball gag can be, the next step is becoming familiar with ball gag safety. As with any device that enters your body or restricts breathing, ball gags can be dangerous. Here are five ball gag safety tips to make sure that you and your partner play things safe.

1. The Right Fit Is Everything: The first and most important step is making sure that the ball gag fits you properly. If it’s too loose then it won’t be pleasurable at all. If it’s too tight then you can have trouble breathing or even cut off circulation. Since everyone has heads of different sizes and shapes, achieving the right fit can be tricky. Some people use bondage tape to keep gags safe and secure, while others simply try out different models until they find the right one. FunLove’s knowledgeable sales reps are available to help you find the best gag for you.
2. Don’t Use a Ball Gag If You Have Certain Health Conditions: People with chronic respiratory issues should not use a ball gag. The same goes for people that are suffering from colds, allergy attacks, or sinus infections. Wait until your ailment has passed before having fun with a gag.
3. Build Up Your Jaw Strength: One common mistake people make with ball gags is doing too much too soon. Ball gags will keep your mouth in an unnatural position, which can stress out your jaw. Take some time to build jaw strength. Start out with 10-minute sessions. Once you're comfortable, add on another five minutes and keep building upon that. Before you know it, you’ll be able to enjoy a ball gag for an hour or more.
4. Establish a Non-Verbal Safeword: Safewords are an important element of BDSM safety. Unfortunately, they’re not practical when using a ball gag, since speech is restricted. Clearly establish a non-verbal safeword with your partner to make it clear that you want to stop. This can be anything from tugging on your partner’s left ear to making an “X” with your arms. As with so many sex acts, clear communication is essential.
5. Wash Your Ball Gag: Lastly, be sure to wash your ball gag after every use. Although the ball gags available on FunLove.com are made from body safe materials, bacteria and grime can build up if they’re not cared for properly. This can lead to infections and other nasty surprises. Thankfully, warm water with a bit of antibacterial soap is all that it takes to help you keep your ball gag clean. You can then safely keep your ball gag in one of the wide range of sex toy storage options that we offer.

Get Your Ball Gags at FunLove

Now that you know how to use a ball gag safely, the next step is finding the right one for you in our online store or Fascinations retail locations. No matter which way you shop, our friendly and knowledgeable staff can help you find the best ball gag for you. With more than 30 years of experience in the sex toy indutry, you can count on FunLove to offer the highest-quality products that will help you achieve new heights of pleasure.