Sex toys are meant to make pleasure easier, not confusing, yet we see the same mistakes come up again and again. The good news? Every single one of these is totally fixable, and most come down to a little education (not experience).
At Fascinations, our friendly in-store teams across Arizona and Colorado help customers avoid these pitfalls every day. Whether you’re brand new or upgrading your collection, here’s how to get the most out of your toys, confidently and comfortably.
Mistake #1: Buying the Wrong Toy for Your Experience Level
The problem:
Jumping straight into an advanced toy can feel overwhelming.. too intense, too big, or just not enjoyable.
The fix:
Start where you are, not where TikTok is. Beginners often enjoy:
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Simple vibrators with multiple speeds
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External stimulation before internal
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Smaller sizes with softer materials
If you’re unsure, visiting a local adult store lets you ask questions and see options in person, without pressure.
Mistake #2: Skipping Lube (Or Using the Wrong Kind)
The problem:
Dryness, discomfort, or friction that makes play less fun than it should be.
The fix:
Lube isn’t optional.. it’s essential.
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Water-based lube works with most toys
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Silicone-based lube is longer-lasting (but not for silicone toys)
A good rule: if it could use lube, it should use lube.
Mistake #3: Choosing Size Based on Looks, Not Comfort
The problem:
A toy that looks great online but feels intimidating or uncomfortable in real life.
The fix:
Size is personal. What matters is:
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Length you’re comfortable with
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Girth that feels enjoyable, not overwhelming
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Flexibility instead of firmness for beginners
Seeing toys in-store (or asking a knowledgeable staff member) can make all the difference!
Mistake #4: Not Cleaning Toys Properly
The problem:
Bacteria buildup, odors, or damaged materials from improper care.
The fix:
Clean toys before and after every use:
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Use a toy-safe cleaner or warm water + mild soap
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Fully dry before storing
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Store toys separately to protect materials
Clean toys = safer, longer-lasting pleasure.
Mistake #5: Expecting Instant Results
The problem:
Feeling discouraged if a toy doesn’t work perfectly the first time.
The fix:
Pleasure is a process, not a performance. Try:
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Different speeds or patterns
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Using toys externally before internally
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Pairing toys with breathing, relaxation, or mood-setting
There’s no “right” way, only what feels good for you.
Mistake #6: Buying From the Wrong Place
The problem:
Low-quality toys, unclear materials, or zero support after purchase.
The fix:
Shop with a trusted, local adult store. When you shop with Fascinations, you get:
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Real product knowledge
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Safe, body-friendly materials
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Same-day pickup or local delivery
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Support from people who actually care
Big-box websites can’t compete with that.
Mistake #7: Feeling Embarrassed to Ask Questions
The problem:
Guessing instead of getting guidance, and ending up with the wrong product.
The fix:
Questions are welcome. Always.
Our stores are designed to be warm, judgment-free spaces for all genders, orientations, and experience levels. ❤️
If you’ve wondered it, we’ve heard it.. and we’re happy to help!
Pleasure Works Better When You Feel Supported
Most sex toy mistakes aren’t about doing something wrong, they’re about not having the right info or support.
That’s why having a local adult store near you matters.
With 18 locations across Arizona and Colorado, Fascinations makes it easy to:
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Shop online
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Pick up same day
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Get discreet local delivery
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Ask real humans for real advice
Pleasure should feel good from start to finish.
Ready to Fix the Mistakes & Upgrade Your Experience?
Whether you’re replacing your first toy or refining your collection, we’re here to help! In store, online, or delivered locally.
✨ Shop smart. Feel confident. Enjoy more.
✨ Fascinations, your trusted local adult store.
