Confidence isn’t one specific look. It’s not a cup size, a number on a tag, or a “type.” Confidence is that moment you catch yourself in the mirror and think: Okayyy… there I am.
And the best lingerie? It’s the lingerie that makes you feel like your hottest, most comfortable, most powerful self, whether that means soft and romantic, bold and strappy, or cozy-but-sexy. Let’s make it easy (and fun) to find.
If you’re in Arizona or Colorado, you can shop online and visit a local Fascinations store for help with sizing, fit, and picking a style you actually feel good in.
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Step 1: Decide what “confident” feels like for you
Before you click “add to cart,” ask yourself:
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Do I want to feel soft + romantic?
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Bold + powerful?
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Playful + flirty?
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Comfy + effortless (but still hot)?
There’s no wrong answer. The goal isn’t to dress for someone else’s taste. The goal is to find what makes you stand taller.
Try this little cheat code:
If you’re nervous, start with a style that feels “one step braver” than your usual, not ten steps. Confidence builds fast when you don’t overwhelm yourself.
Step 2: Choose your “confidence zone” (aka your go-to lingerie styles)
Here are a few staples that work for a lot of bodies and comfort levels:
Teddies & bodysuits (easy confidence, minimal fuss)
A teddy is one of the easiest “instant outfit” pieces, no matching required. It can hug your curves, smooth in flattering spots, and make you feel styled without trying too hard.
Babydolls & chemises (soft, flowy, forgiving)
If you love something a little more relaxed, these are great because they drape instead of cling. Romantic, breathable, and very “I woke up like this.”
Two-piece sets (customize your fit)
Want to mix-and-match and control coverage? Sets let you pick what feels best on top and bottom, perfect if you want supportive up top and something cheeky below (or vice versa).
“Packaged lingerie” (fast, fun, and great for beginners)
If you want something easy and budget-friendly that still feels flirty, packaged lingerie is a great place to start especially for first-time lingerie shoppers.
Step 3: Fit is confidence (so let’s talk sizing without the stress)
A lot of lingerie disappointment is really just fit frustration. Here’s how to avoid it:
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Measure once (bust, waist, hips) and save it in your notes app.
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If you’re between sizes:
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Size up for comfort + less digging
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Size down only if the fabric is very stretchy and you like a snug fit
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Look for adjustable features:
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adjustable straps
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stretch lace
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hook closures
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adjustable garters
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And if you want help, this is where shopping local is a win: Fascinations stores are designed for a comfortable, classy shopping experience with knowledgeable staff, so you can get guidance without feeling weird about it.
Step 4: Pick the details that make you feel unstoppable
Lingerie confidence often comes down to tiny design choices. Think about what you love:
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Support: underwire, longline bras, or structured cups
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Softness: lace that feels comfy, satin that glides, mesh that breathes
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Coverage: thong vs. cheeky vs. high-waist
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Drama level: strappy, cutouts, or simple and sleek
A confidence trick that works every time:
Choose one “main character” detail, like a strappy back, a plunge neckline, or a high-waist bottom, then keep the rest simple.
Step 5: Choose lingerie for the moment you’re actually having
Not every set needs to be “special occasion.” Confidence lingerie can be:
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Date night lingerie (bold, spicy, “watch me” energy)
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Everyday sexy lingerie (comfortable, supportive, still cute)
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Self-care lingerie (you’re doing it for you, end of story)
Step 6: Confidence doesn’t require perfection—just comfort + a vibe
If you put it on and you’re tugging, adjusting, or feeling “not me”… it’s not the one. The right lingerie should feel like:
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“I can breathe.”
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“I look good from every angle.”
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“I want to keep this on.”
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“Okay… I get it now.”
That’s the standard.
Quick Confidence Checklist (save this for later)
Before you buy, ask:
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Can I imagine myself feeling comfortable in this for 20+ minutes?
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Does it have adjustable straps or stretch where I need it?
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Do I like how it looks and how it will feel on my skin?
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Is this a style I can see myself wearing again?
If you answered “yes” to most of those? That’s your match.
FAQ: Choosing Lingerie That Makes You Feel Confident
What lingerie style is most flattering for beginners?
Teddies/bodysuits and babydolls are great beginner options because they’re easy to wear and don’t require perfect matching.
How do I choose lingerie if I’m between sizes?
Usually, size up for comfort.. especially with lace, straps, or anything that could dig in.
What if I don’t feel confident in lingerie?
Start with a style that feels like “you” (not a costume). Confidence builds when the piece feels comfortable and aligned with your vibe.
Does Fascinations have size-inclusive lingerie?
Fascinations highlights lingerie options that range from one size fits all through plus sizes, with a broad selection across categories.
Can I shop lingerie locally in Arizona and Colorado?
Yes, Fascinations has 18 locations across AZ & CO and offers in-store shopping plus online browsing.
Closing: Wear what makes you feel like you
You don’t need a “lingerie body.” You have a body. And you deserve lingerie that makes you feel confident in it.
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