The Art of Oral Sex What is Oral Sex? Wikipedia (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oral_sex) describes oral sex as sexual activities involving the stimulation of the genitalia by using of the mouth, tongue, teeth, or throat. Cunnilingus refers to oral sex performed on a woman, fellatio refers to oral sex performed on a man, and analingus refers to oral stimulation of a person’s anus. 10 TIPS FOR THE BEST ORAL SEX EVER Talk about it: Do not engage in any sexual activities before talking about it. Talk about safety; what kind of condoms will be used? Flavored or non-flavored? Lubricated or non-lubricated? What about using a dental dam or saran wrap for oral on her? Ask if the women prefers fingers or no fingers in her vagina. Talk about deep-throating and swallowing; is that something either of you are ok with, or maybe have as off limits? Ask your partner what they like and dislike before taking it any further. Explore Your Partner: Learn about your partner’s genital anatomy. Scarleteen (http://www.scarleteen.com/) has some great information on all types of anatomy. Learn what feels good, what feels better and what feels great! Clean and neat: Discuss each other’s preferences regarding hair; some people love it, and some people prefer having a little, and even others prefer nothing at all. Try taking a bath together before oral sex. This is not only very sensual and great foreplay, but can help stave off any concerns regarding taste and/or hygiene. Taste & Smell: If you are worried about the way you taste or smell, there are a few things that you can do. First, note that it is 100% normal to smell and/or taste. This is a body, not a medically sealed environment. Lots of people love the way vaginal fluid and/or semen taste. Still nervous? Avoid alcohol, heavy spices and bitter foods like broccoli, asparagus or garlic. Drink lots of water, and eat plenty of fruits. You can also try cinnamon, lemon, and peppermint. If you taste different than usual, you may want to see your doctor, as change in taste can indicate an infection of some sort. Positive attitude: Always start things off with a positive attitude. If you don’t want to do it, more than likely, you will channel those feeling to your partner. Get excited about it and be passionate. If you’re not in the mood, let them know. Is there something else you’re feeling excited about? Set the mood: The atmosphere for oral sex can be sensual, sexy or even wild in the back seat of the car. However you decided to get down and dirty, make sure that the environment you’re in is safe, relaxed, and filled with anticipation and sexual tension Variation: Don’t always do the same thing. Lick, nibble, caress and suck everything (although double check with your partner about the nibbling)! Try different positions during oral sex. Do it in different places. Use your hands, hair, feet and breasts. Maybe try sucking on a mint before going down to give it a little tingle. Dos: Do it with passion. Do it because you want to. Make eye contact and enjoy pleasing your partner. Ask your partner what they want and enjoy. Don’ts: Do not use oral sex as a punishment or way to degrade your partner. Do not put sweets/anything with sugar or glycerin near the vulva, or blow air in the vagina. If you’re not sure about something, don’t do it. Better safe than sorry. Practice: Use lollipops, twisters, peaches, mangos and bananas to practice your technique. Better yet, practice on your lover; remember that practice makes perfect!
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